When it comes to money, emotions often get in the way of logic. We act too quickly, too impulsively or we dont act quickly enough, if at all.
Its not the rational side of our brain thats tripping us up, but the emotional side where the baggage we care about money resides.
Work at It
If you work at it, youll be able to quiet that irrational side that is prone to ignore your best thought-out plans and youll be able to execute your investing strategy. More importantly, youll be able to stick with it when things go very bad or very well.Some investors, however, have a very difficult time shaking the investing demons that seem to compel them into making the same mistakes over and over. Frequently the casual investor who doesnt trade often has the most trouble overcoming emotions in investing.
One of the steps to becoming a successful investor is being honest with yourself. If you have a difficult time saying no to that demon who wants you to jump after that hot little small cap stock, when what your portfolio really needs is some stability and income, then its time to admit that you need some help.
No Shame
Theres no shame here (the shame is in making the same dumb investing mistakes over and over).The primary driving emotion for many investors is the fear of losing money followed closely by the prospect of making a quick buck. Either one of these emotions clouds judgment and prevents you from thinking clearly about how an action (buy or sell) affects your portfolio.
Take Steps
What can you do if your emotions are getting in the way? There are a couple of steps you can take to stop or limit the influence of emotions on your investing success.- Use an advisor. A financial advisor can tell you no when your emotions want to chase a wild rabbit stock down a hole and remind you of your investing objectives. They can help you set your objectives so you have something to measure trades against.
- Use a plan. Make a plan that focuses on your objectives. This is the do-it-yourself version of getting a financial advisor. The plan should address your objectives and any trades should be measured against the plan to see if they meet your objectives or not. Hold up any investment decision to the plan to see if it fits or not. If you are prone to fudging, you might have a spouse, partner or someone else hold the plan and make the call on whether the investment meets the plans objectives.
- Cooling off period. Wait 24 hours before you make any investment decision that isnt part of your plan. Its amazing how different an investment can look after a good nights sleep and remember, there will always be another deal.

